Abuse

Does this sound familiar?

Before you met him, you had more friends than you have now
Before you began dating him, you were more outgoing and involved with family, school activities, and/or place of worship
You frequently cry or are very sad
If your he text or calls you, you must call him back immediately
He becomes jealous if you look or speak casually with another boy
He accuses you of behaviors that you do not actually engage in
He is aggressive in other areas of his life: he puts his fist through walls or closets, bangs his fist to make a point, or throw things when angry
You make excuses for his poor behavior or say its your fault
He calls you demeaning names, then laughs and tells you he was only kidding or that you are too sensitive
You have recently become very critical of your appearance, talents, or abilities
You frequently have to explain yourself to him or often say you are sorry